I just don't get it..

i dnt get it sometimes.. why do some husbands always treat their wives like a slave?? u noe, its lyk wen dey r standing der at the isle, waiting to be announced husband n wife, wad is actually in der minds other that wanting to marry d women?? d reason im saying diz is bk0z after years n years of marriage.. after years n years of building a strong n solid love and family, dey decide to break out from their comfort zone, n do something wild as if dey r stil single n available! come on plz.. noe dat u r married n u hv a wife and kids... its not dat u r not allowed to hv a social life (duh!! u r not robot or wad) bt den, limit it.. bk0z u noe u hv a big responsibility.. y neglect ur responsibility? u hv made a vow and swear that u will not neglect ur wife and family... wen u realise dat u hv a wife waiting for u at home, y come back in d middle of d nite or WORST, early in the morning???? don't u think of how worried she is?? don't u noe how she feels? lets say, ur wife does diz to u.. wad will u feel?? don't dare tell me u will be relaxed about it.. plz!!! don't lie.. u'll be going out of ur mind...!! if u wanna noe hw to treat a women, try walking in der high heels.. feel wad it is lyk to wait for ur hubby to come back... do u realise dat she is worry bk0z she loves n care bout u? a true woman will always wait for her man.. doesn't matter wad u do to her, she will always love u n be patient wid all ur bullshits and crap!! bt remember 1 thing, she is also a human being wid a heart n feelings.. everyone has the limitation in patients.. wen u cross over the board and the limit, she can't bare it anymore... so, don't blame her if she goes out to mingle wid other men... it is a sin, yes... bt y blame her? who started all the bullshits?? by the time u realise that she is always around wen u nid her, and u realise dat she has always been a good wife to u, she'll be long gone! so plz, appreciate ur wives wen u hv the chance.. do it now, or forever suffer wid the guilt that hv grown inside u. PEACE!